If you want to create the life of your dreams, then you are going to have to take 100% responsibility for your life as well. That means giving up all your excuses, all your victim stories, all the reasons why you can’t and why you haven’t up until now, and all your blaming of outside circumstances. You have to give them all up forever.
You have to take the position that you have always had the power to make it different, to get it right, to produce the desired result. For whatever reason—ignorance, lack of awareness, fear, needing to be right, the need to feel safe—you chose not to exercise that power. Who knows why? It doesn’t matter.
The past is the past. All that matters now is that from this point forward you choose—that’s right, it’s a choice—you choose to act as if (that’s all that’s required—to act as if) you are 100% responsible for everything that does or doesn’t happen to you.
All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.
WAYNE DYER
You will never become successful as long as you continue to blame someone or something else for your lack of success.
If you are going to be a winner, you have to acknowledge the truth—it is you who took the actions, thought the thoughts, created the feelings, and made the choices that got you to where you now are. It was you!
You are the one who ate the junk food.
You are the one who didn’t say no!
You are the one who took the job.
You are the one who stayed in the job.
You are the one who chose to believe them.
You are the one who ignored your intuition.
You are the one who abandoned your dream.
You are the one who bought it.
You are the one who didn’t take care of it.
You are the one who decided you had to do it alone.
You are the one who trusted him.
You are the one who said yes to the dogs.
In short, you thought the thoughts, you created the feelings, you made the choice, you said the words, and that’s why you are where you are now.
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I have lot of thoughts about so many things…
I think it’s totally unfair when good people hurt. This is because I’m a pretty emotional person and if my friend happens to be hurting, I’m always affected in a way.
Why do heartbreaks hurt so much? I would rather get beaten because then I can get over it, but heartbreaks linger for a long time. Mind you, when I talk about heart break I am not necessarily referring to an intimate relationship, because that’s the picture a lot of us have.
A heartbreak could entail getting betrayed by a loved one,friend, family member etc.
How does one then get over it? Personally, I have found that spoken and written words have always been helpful.
You see, it’s okay to feel down, but it’s totally not okay to remain down. It gradually rubs off on the people around you. But how can we dodge these pains? If only we were equipped with some form of foresight that enable us see the ugly bull galloping towards us from a mile away and block it with our super powers, but it simply doesn’t work that way.
Indeed, HEARTBREAKS ARE SETBACKS. They keep you static. They keep you constantly wondering. They even make you paranoid. They turn you into a stalker like literally (social media stalking, even physical stalking). Heartbreaks create guilt and pushes people away.
There’s just so much negativity that surrounds a heartbreak but if you can overcome it, it’s such a great feeling.
The key lies in your mind, your mind needs to be renewed to get quick recovery.
You need to fall in love with yourself all over again. Appreciate the good things about life. Go out, try out new things.
R. H. Sin said, “Sometimes you don’t have to argue, sometimes silence is all they need to hear. Sometimes they just need to lose you for a lifetime to finally figure out that you were one of the best things to ever occur in their life.”
You are unique!
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