Life just comes at you with so many balls to joggle at once, and if you are not making conscious effort to have personal time as a glass ball amongst these balls, you’d just be caught up in this “loose yourself web”
Honestly that’s not going to be me most definitely, by His grace.
I have come to understand that really as cliche as it sounds no one is indispensable.
Carry the world on your head at your own risk.
Carry your job on your full chest at your own detriment.
The only thing you’re permitted to carry unashamedly is God.
Yes I always bring God into everything , like Duuurhh that’s not news.
So with that being said, take time out to take care of yourself.
Your mental health, your mind, your body, your akant (finance).
Be intentional about being at your best.
Bring your A game to every game.
Invest in yourself, learn a skill, read a book, treat yourself to something/somewhere nice, nobi only man money you go dey chop this year. Take a course, a solo trip, earn, save.
Look good every day, ladies wear makeup it doesn’t have to heavy, I got you, check my YouTube channel for “everyday makeup routine tutorial click on the ‘Youtube video ‘
Wear your hair nice, keep your nails clean, Reeeeeesssssstttttttt, this cannot be overly emphasized. Sleep , eat healthy.
Start that weight loss/fitness journey.
You would have yourself to thank at the end of the day.
The words are self improvement and Time management.
In these two add intentionality.
I think I have made my point, let me take a bow.
God is our combined strength.
See you in the next blog post.
Love yall Zino-P.
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History is filled with examples of incredible riches and astounding benefits people have received simply by asking for them. Yet surprisingly, asking—one of the most powerful success principles of all—is still a challenge that holds most people back. If you are not afraid to ask anybody for anything, then skip over this post. But if you are like most people, you may be holding yourself back by not asking for the information, assistance, support, money, and time that you need to fulfill your vision and make your dreams come true.
Why People are Afraid to Ask?, Why are people so afraid to ask? They are afraid of many things such as looking needy, looking foolish, and looking stupid. But mostly they’re afraid of experiencing rejection. They are afraid of hearing the word no.
The sad thing is that they’re actually rejecting themselves in advance. They’re saying no to themselves before anyone else even has a chance to.
Don’t assume that you are going to get a no. Take the risk to ask for whatever you need and want. If they say no, you are no worse off than when you started. If they say yes, you are a lot better off. Just by being willing to ask, you can get a raise, a donation, a room with an ocean view, a discount, a free sample, a date, a better assignment, the order, a more convenient delivery date, an extension, time off, or help with the housework.
We have come to the end of today’s read. I hope you had a nice time reading.
In my next read I’d be sharing a few ways we can ask for what we want.
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]]>This past weeks has not been the easiest.
Worked resumed last monday and on sunday I was totally not prepared, I’d usually arrange my stuff, plan my to-do list, but i slept on Sunday night not worrying about anything …I just said to myself tomorrow would take care of itself.
First I woke up late the next morning, the cold and all, my body hadn’t adjusted to waking up early, so I got ready haphazardly, found myself at work and just struggled through out the day. Well it affected my mood and I concluded I’d be fine and would probably do better the next day.
Tuesday came and I felt even worse, I had this heaviness in my heart, work didn’t make it any better, I was unhappy for the most part, scared and anxious, my thoughts were all over the place. I haven’t mastered the act of masking my emotions and wearing a fake smile all day err day so I guess my countenance was quite obvious, did the best I could at work, didn’t have a choice, plus I wasn’t ready to ruin things there and compound my problems.
I’m heading somewhere please stick with me.
At night I wouldn’t sleep, there were days I cried my eyes sore, the fright and worry continued.
I decide to talk to a few of my friends, my circle is really small and I would usually talk to myself, my sis or my mom and get all the support, relieve and assurance I needed at that point in time, but I decided to share my problems further, you know what they say about problems being shared, okay.
The last two conversations I had was as if God spoke through their mouths, I gained so much light, I was at work that faithful Wednesday, I knelt down to pray a simple prayer
I told God “He knows me better than anyone else and all I seek is His peace, I was done worrying about the known and unknown and all I wanted was that He guide me through my journey here on earth and I was willing to not fight His plan or will. In that instance I felt calm, it was magical, so quick so swift, I can’t fitit into words. God heard me, He didn’t answer in the way I was use to hearing Him speak to me. I stood up dusted myself and carried on with my work.
I’m learning to take each day as it comes, running with Matthew 6:33 and watch God settle every other thing.
We live in a chaotic world, it messes with our thought pattern, work us up and ultimately leave us feeling miserable, not the best feeling I can assure you.
Please do not bottle up your feelings, I’d say talk to someone, not just anyone, more than anyone in this world we all know what good counsel sounds like and where to get one. Most importantly talk to God, not like your Boss, or strict parent, talk to him like you would talk to your love interest, ask Him relevant Questions, he’s a question answering God, don’t be hasty to leave, wait till you get a response, He’s always speaking.
I don’t know who’s meant to see this, I just want you to know you’re not alone God loves you more than you could ever imagine, He sees all you’re going through and he just wants you to let him in, so he can help you.
Thank you for taking out time to read my blog, please share this if you think it might help someone out there. I love you all see you in my next post. Peace!
