Just like you have seen in the tittle, it’s a continuation of our last read.
Let’s go straight into today’s read shall we!
There’s a specific science to asking for and getting what you want or need in life, here are some quick tips to get you started:
1. Ask as if you expect to get it. Ask with a positive expectation. Ask from the place that you have already been given it. It’s a done deal. Ask as if you expect to get a yes.
2. Assume you can. Don’t start with the assumption that you can’t get it. If you are going to assume, assume you can get an upgrade. Assume you can get a table by the window. Assume that you can return it without a sales slip. Assume that you can get a scholarship, that you can get a raise, that you can get tickets at this late date. Don’t ever assume against yourself.
3. Ask someone who can give it to you. Qualify the person. “Who would I have to speak to to get…” “Who is authorized to make a decision about…” “What would have to happen for me to get…”
4. Be clear and specific. Your requests need to be specific. When it comes to money, you need to ask for a specific amount.
Don’t say: I want a raise.
Do say: I want a raise of N200,000 a month.
When it comes to when you want something done, don’t say “soon” or “whenever it’s convenient.” Give a specific date and time.
Don’t say: I want to spend some time with you this weekend.
Do say: I would like to go out for dinner and a movie with you on Saturday night. Would that work for you?
When it comes to a behavioral request, be specific. Say exactly what you want the person to do.
Don’t say: I want more help around the house.
Do say: I want you to wash the dishes every night after dinner and take out the garbage Monday, Wednesday, and Friday nights.
5. Ask repeatedly. One of the most important principles of success is persistence, not giving up.
Whenever you’re asking others to participate in the fulfillment of your goals, some people are going to say no. They may have other priorities, commitments, and reasons not to participate. It’s not a reflection on you.
Just get used to the idea that there’s going to be a lot of rejection along the way to the brass ring.
The key is not to give up. When someone says no, you keep on asking. Why? Because when you keep on asking—even the same person again and again—you might get a yes… On a different day When the person is in a better mood When you have new data to present After you’ve proven your commitment to them When circumstances have changed When you’ve learned how to close better When you’ve established better rapport, When the person trusts you more, When you have paid your dues, When the economy is better Kids understand this success principle perhaps better than anyone. They will ask the same person for the same thing over and over again without any hesitation. They eventually wear you down.
I once read a story in People magazine about a man who asked the same woman more than 30 times to marry him. No matter how many times she said no, he kept coming back—and eventually she said yes!
I’m pretty sure you’re considering trying out atleast one of this tips, I want to know exactly which one, leave me a comment in the comment section. Thanks for taking out time to read. If you found this interesting and inspiring, please don’t keep it to yourself, share it with your friends and keep the scroll moving. I love you all, thank you for your continuous support, I will see you in the next read…peace. ]]>
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So!
History is filled with examples of incredible riches and astounding benefits people have received simply by asking for them. Yet surprisingly, asking—one of the most powerful success principles of all—is still a challenge that holds most people back. If you are not afraid to ask anybody for anything, then skip over this post. But if you are like most people, you may be holding yourself back by not asking for the information, assistance, support, money, and time that you need to fulfill your vision and make your dreams come true.
Why People are Afraid to Ask?, Why are people so afraid to ask? They are afraid of many things such as looking needy, looking foolish, and looking stupid. But mostly they’re afraid of experiencing rejection. They are afraid of hearing the word no.
The sad thing is that they’re actually rejecting themselves in advance. They’re saying no to themselves before anyone else even has a chance to.
Don’t assume that you are going to get a no. Take the risk to ask for whatever you need and want. If they say no, you are no worse off than when you started. If they say yes, you are a lot better off. Just by being willing to ask, you can get a raise, a donation, a room with an ocean view, a discount, a free sample, a date, a better assignment, the order, a more convenient delivery date, an extension, time off, or help with the housework.
We have come to the end of today’s read. I hope you had a nice time reading.
In my next read I’d be sharing a few ways we can ask for what we want.
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We’ve all acquired patterns of behavior that form the basis of our daily routines. But what happens when our daily routines are suddenly changed? After spending a year embracing uncertainty, how do we start to move forward?
The beginning of 2021 is the perfect time to reset our minds, look closely at our habits, and prepare our hearts for what God is going to do next.
Here are 5 ways to do that:
Set aside time with God every day.
You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.
JEREMIAH 29:13
Start rebuilding healthy habits by making time with God your top priority. When you prioritize time with Him, you allow Him to renew your mind and change the way you think.
One tool you can use to create a daily quiet time routine is Verse of the Day Stories. Start your day with a Story and get into the habit of letting God’s Word speak to you.
Ask yourself: At what times of day do I find it easiest and hardest to connect with God?
Fix your eyes on Jesus
Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.
HEBREWS 12:1-2
Keeping Jesus at the center of your life will help you lay aside anything that might easily entangle you, and eventually, this practice will change the way you live.
So today, take a moment to think about what might be keeping you from focusing entirely on Jesus. Try creating a Prayer in your Bible App and list the distractions you want to surrender. Then, set up a Prayer reminder to help you give those distractions over to Jesus every day.
Ask yourself: What desires are keeping me from centering my life completely around Jesus?
Remember Whose you are
You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.
1 CORINTHIANS 6:19-20
Everything you’ve sacrificed this past year will never compare to the ultimate sacrifice God made for you. So when you begin to grow discouraged, remember that God is eternally invested in your life. Your future is in the hands of Someone who loves you, and He wants you to become the person He created you to be.
Ask yourself: What habits will help me glorify God more?
Start small
One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much, and one who is dishonest in a very little is also dishonest in much.
LUKE 16:10
Growth takes time, so just pick something small you’d like to change, and start there. Consistently doing one thing well will make it easier to master other habits later. And if you miss a day (or five), give yourself grace. Starting small makes it easier to pick yourself back up and keep moving forward.
Ask yourself: What is one thing I can start to master?
Invite others to join you
As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.
PROVERBS 27:17
We weren’t meant to go through life alone. You’ll find it easier to stay on track if you invite some friends to join you on your journey. Try finding a Bible Plan you’d like to read, and then commit to processing each Plan day together.
Ask yourself: What trusted friends can I invite to join me?
As you keep developing healthy habits, over time you will find yourself becoming more like the person God created you to be.
It only takes a moment to get going, and these 5 steps are a great place to start. Pick the number you want to focus on first, and then stay committed to moving forward by applying this bonus step…
Set Reminders to help you pursue what matters most.
Reminders are perfect for the times when you need some extra encouragement to continue to build good habits. And by setting up Bible App reminders, you’ll always have a way to stay connected to God’s Word and His will for you. Reminders are currently available for Bible Plans, Verse of the Day, and YouVersion Prayer.
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